Mom v.s. Grades? How can I win her okay for Cs? I don't even want to go to college.?

[Mimi]

I think you should tell her how you feel, and what is really happening. It's true, she can't push you around just because of the things you aren't interested in, but she doesn't know that little tidbit yet. Maybe have some little facts to back yourself up. You can also tell her that, you and your brother may be related, but aren't the same person, therefore, not have the same memory-span or interests. Just don't yell at her. She might feel offended and punish you more if you do (hopefully that doesn't happen). Also, you can tell her that you're going trying the best you can, but just isn't interested. Point out the things you are good at, tell her how you try.

If you don't feel comfortable telling your mom directly, maybe you can tell someone else how you feel, like a friend, but more specifically, a family member, and even more specifically, a family member that is in the house. Tell you dad, grandparent, or your brother. You can tell them what's happening, and what your mom isn't understanding. If you can't, tell them to a friend. It's better to vent the feelings out then coop them all inside. You can also ask them for advice on how to deal with it, too.

It's tough, I know, I've been there, but I've always told my dad about my mom problems. He always goes to talk to my mom afterwards. I also talk about it to my friends. They also give me advice on how to deal with it.

Try your best, and keep your head high. Show her you are trying, and just winner in the process. Continue to do your school work though, it will help you later on in life. Now go and be a winner!

Hope this helped and hoping for the best!