When I tag someone in my photo/status on Facebook how do I stop their friend seing my status?

[princess]

ok I want my Facebook account as safe secure and private as possible, I only want my friends to see my photos/status' so when I tag a friend in my status or photo I don't really want others seeing my status unless I'm friends with them.

• which setting do u suggest I change so that when I tag someone their friends can't see it?

• what should I change the setting to?

I don't need a lecture on if I don't wish for people to see things don't put them on a social networking site as that is not the case, I am doing this so my ex boyfriend can't spy on me (blocking is not an option as he just makes a new account) also so I don't get messages off strange men.


if u could please explain step by step I will be more than happy, thanks