do you think the public and media's perception of what goes on in bars and clubs, inaccurate and exaggerated?

[Scott Nails]

It is generally perceived to be places where people can easily expect to meet strangers and hook up and that there is a proper casual sex scene going on


In reality There is really no 'casual sex scene' per se.

For me, it is essentially BYOB (Bring Your Own Bich). Most people go t bars and clubs as couples or in groups.

Its is rarely possible to talk to women you dont already know. Most women come to bars with their own social circle and (unlike men) completely shut themselves to anyone outside of that circle.

You need good looks, oozing levels of confidence and social intelligence to create some sort of context to get yourself noticed by women and make them come out of their protective shells

In reality, bars and clubs are extremely competitive and harsh places for men. Even the least attractive women in a 'bar setting' will only respond to men who stand out