Talking to my crush on Facebook? should i ?

[Janosz]

Aww, sorry for the tough situation.

To my novice ear, it sounds like you liked him a little and were embarrassed by your own behaviour when you acted rudely in front of him. I imagine this caused you to be a little more hesitant/reserved in communicating with him and he could have taken this as a lack of interest and backed off to protect his own feelings.

It sounds like you think he liked you at one point, so there is hope and something to work with. My best guess is that he wouldn't now make the very first move but you could probably rekindle a friendship/relationship with a little momentum from you.

My best advice is to start small and get back in contact; be friendly, chatty and warm... and don't focus on the past - don't start by apologising for past actions (and don't bring up the ex), just show that you're different to how you acted previously in your future actions.

While it's nervewracking to make yourself vulnerable in showing interest in somebody - remember (I'm assuming you're a girl here) that even though it's more common for a boy to pluck up the courage, they feel exactly the same way about it and are likely to be delighted (and feel flattered) that it happened the other way around. So go make his day =)