How to say "I'm Sad/upset" on Facebook without looking like an attention seeker?

[Alexandra]

Why do you need to broadcast to the world that you are sad or upset? No matter what, you will look like you are just looking for attention if you post this. Even if you post it, there is no guarantee that your friends will see it. Some people don't look at every status that their friends post.

If these are your real friends, call them! Tell them that you really need some cheering up and ask if they are available to do something with you. You can't expect them to guess at how you're feeling or that you would like to be cheered up. How will they know what you need unless you tell them? Personally, there are times when I'm sad and upset that I just want to be left alone. Other times, I need to be around people. I don't expect my friends to know on their own what I need on any particular day.

Forget the public pity party...make some calls.