should I add someone I have no mutual friends with (on facebook)?

[Scott]

I think I have answered a similar question recently. Here is how you should approach this:

1) Send him a message with your friend request and explain how you know him and just say that you remember him from high school.
2) If he accepts your request then you have a new friend!
3) If he doesn't then, that's the worst than can happen.

Also, women need to understand that most guys wouldn't find this stalkerish or even think that it's bad!

Go for it!