My mom looked through my facebook messages?

[Leah]

My mom just came into the room and told me she read my messages and knows I'm smoking pot again. And I know, many of you will instantly assume that I'm crazily addicted and she had a right to go through my messages but I barely ever smoke pot. And now she has zero trust for me. Honestly, if she drug tested me now, i'd be clean. But I believe she had no right to go through my private messages without my permission. I know she is older than me and I should respect this but I'm having a really hard time with it. I've never felt more exposed, humiliated, and angry at my mother. Those are my personal messages. I really don't know what to do. I can't look at her without wanting to cry and I also lost all trust for her. I know many of you will take my moms side, and i can see why. But I don't know what to do or say.