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would mean a lot if someone would give me 5 minutes to help me with this problem please?
10-14-2012, 03:00 AM
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would mean a lot if someone would give me 5 minutes to help me with this problem please?
Me and my boyfriend are together a year and living together a month. We had a long distant relationship but I found a job and moved in with him and his family. Before this we had a 2 month split but when we got back I moved in straight away. In the beginning everything was great but then we started fighting a lot like every day. I used to smother him I suppose as I knew no one else and wanted him to be with me all the time. So we went away last week for 2 days but he never came near me (sex wise) and i got upset and we had a row on friday and then he ended it he said we were going round in circles and he wasnt happy he just had enough and told me it was over. I ended up staying in a hotel sunday night and it got messy in his house. Yesterday morning I was back in the house and we watched telly in the back sitting room together we lied with our feet across each other and got on fine. Then he went to work and text me saying he is only saying this once that he loved me so much and it killed him seeing me so upset yesterday he said we need space for a few weeks but will still remain friends during that time, he said he would consider things again if things changed for good if we got on better and I got a life outside of him not to be depending on him he also said to get a place near him to live and that he didn't want me to hassle him about it and not to rush it but he will let me know when he's ready to start seeing me again. last night we slept in the same bed and he put his arm around me and held my hand for a few minutes before going to sleep he also gave me a hug before i went to work this morning. Firstly I would like to hear your thoughts and opinions on this and what he means by that text? im cautious he may be only saying this to me as he feels sorry for me after leaving my family friends and job to move to him and he having to kick me out although he said he wasnt and he did mean it? from the text does it sound like he does still want me? do you think he wants to try again when things settle down and i get my own independance? secondly he is hanging around with his sleazy mate a lot lately i mean he goes to his house every chance he gets and his mate would get up on anything. im worried he may follow suit. and im also worried as he does be chatting girls on twitter although he says its only for banter he has never met them. thirdly because we didnt work out living together does thismean we may never live together again or just not now until were ready? please let them not be too negative, can this relationship be salvaged and am i worrying about nothing?

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would mean a lot if someone would give me 5 minutes to help me with this problem please? - heartbroken gal - 10-14-2012 03:00 AM
[] - Jess - 10-14-2012, 03:08 AM
[] - GirlieGirl - 10-14-2012, 03:08 AM
[] - Neel - 10-14-2012, 03:08 AM
[] - ScienceGal - 10-14-2012, 03:08 AM
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