Starting an online conversation with a girl 8,000 miles away?

[Lee]

You need to let this go. You seem to be obsessed, but it's not with the person, because you don't know her; you're obsessed with who you think she is.

She's obviously not interested in talking to you or she would have accepted your friend request.

You can't have a conversation with her because you say she hasn't received your messages, you don't have her email address and you don't know where she lives. You probably don't even know her real name. The only thing you can do is comment on a photo she shared on Instagram and see if she responds. Forget about privacy because you're not going to get it if she won't accept private messages from you.

Dude, let it go. Find someone you know in real life to get close to.