Can someone please help me ?

[Selva Kumar]

Hey West Coast Prince, From what you presented about yourself, I feel you lack confidence and feel low about yourself. In the first place, bring out your identity to the world, reveal your real name, bring it to attention of the people that you have a real good feeling about yourself. You may be shying away from people, or have negative thoughts about others. I was also the same, until I realized - wow what am i doing to myself and came out with a firm decision to make people like me. I never did stuff out of the my interest, but communicated with people who shared interest with what interested me and walla I have a friends now from all over. Not facebook friends but real friends. I do not expect anything from them, help them out in every other way possible (if i am capable of doing so - and yes no monetary benefits). Eg. One person starting out as a photographer, needed my help - review, criticism about his photos. With my views about his work, he came out better at it and needed a website, which i helped him setup and design (once again no monetary benefits). when he wanted to pay me i asked him to donate whatever he wanted to give me to an orphanage. And that was one of the example.
Now that actually helped me improve my skills in photography, web designing and also some children and made me feel good about myself. So feel good about yourself, respect yourself, treat people as you would like to be treated and see the world change around you.