Sad situation with a guy...advice needed pls?

[Oopsy Daisy#]

He's trying to disassociate himself from you so that neither of you is hurt in the long run. It's a case of better to crush it now than connect furthr and rip each others hearts out when he has to emigrate. I agree this is a sad situation but it all boils down to what you can handle and what he feels he can handle, and right now that appears he has reached his limit. He's being a nice guy saying it wont benefit you seeing each other again, it takes real guts to walk away for the good of both of your sanity, This isn't just about you though so don't be offended he doesn't want to go through the pain of leaving you.

I wouldn't push it, but give him time to think through his decision. At most i would message and explain that you understnd why he has done it, reiterate that while you don't agree with it you accept it. See what happens from there.

Good Luck