is it bad that i don't like when boys are affectionate around me.?

[Liza]

It's not bad, just your body's way of telling you that you're either not ready or interested in guys, or that you picked the wrong guys. When you find a guy that you like a lot, you'll want him to be affectionate. Or when you get older. Also, if you find a guy that doesn't do those things and you expect him to, you'll feel disappointed and anxious, and might start to crave affection. Don't worry about it now. Of course, another possibility might be that you are not into guys, but the other gender. Either way, don't stress it - nothings wrong with you. Everyone is different, and so are your boy crazy friends.