How do i protect myself from my mother.?

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Ask her to please respect your right to a private life young people today typically conduct using social media. Explain that social media is now an essential tool for networking both socially and professionally and that you must be able to participate freely and develop communication skills and networks without unreasonable threat.

How has she ruined your life at home? That's a strong statement. How exactly?

The penalty for breach of trust in a primary relationship is inevitably the loss of intimacy. You stop sharing your private life with mom, stop seeking her approval, giving to yourself instead or seeking approval from your widening network of friends and colleagues. Trust and intimacy are earned. Learn to keep your own counsel and apply greater discretion in discussion with mom. She must understand that there are consequences for breach of trust, respect, etc. Sounds like you will both benefit from a cooling off, pulling away period. Sometimes relations recover; sometimes they don't.