Is this a normal relationship are things coming to an end?

[kate]

Things are coming to an end. He doesn't have you on facebook for a specific reason. He's either seeing someone on the side, trying to, or is ashamed of you. If he told you he will never marry you at your ages and with how long you've been together, it's unlikely he's lying. It sounds to me as though he wants out, but he doesn't have the guts to leave himself, so he's trying to push you to do it. I'm sorry, but at 31, he knows if he's serious about you and he isn't. Telling you he'll never marry you tells you that he doesn't see you two together in the future. It's time to make a plan and move on.