How do I deal with office politics?

[Richard]

Focus on what you can bring to the party in a positive sense. Don't get hung up on jealousy of others - it will get you nowhere. There will always be people who are prettier, more popular, cleverer, richer. If you come over as angry with a big chip on your shoulder everyone will avoid you (can you blame them?). If you come over as the fun, ugly one then people will accept you. Find a talent or something you can do - we all lack the ability to do some things so find what you are good at, and if that is switching lights on and off the aim to be the best at it - make a joke of it but don't sulk and be awkward if you want to be involved and have friends.