How can I get us back to the happy times?

[Phoenix]

Show this question to him and let him know what all you've gone through. Pardon me if it sounds mean but this guy is just a playboy who uses you as some sort of a back up plan and then when he started going out with girls he did'nt need this back up anymore. And now that you're out of the way, there's no one to check on him, he probably wants things to end. If you can move on then please do. It's going to hurt you more badly if he's the one to call the relationship over coz my gut feeling says this is what's going to happen sometime.If you don't want this relationship to end, I have only one suggestion,list out everything that you've felt and has happened to you, question him and don't accept his excuses. Be direct. And don't allow him to point his finger at you.