Should I be angry or hurt over this?

[fibonacci]

The way I see it your child is very fortunate to have someone who is proud of her and obviously has some love for her as a stepmother. My own stepmother was cruel to my brother and I and we were lonely children. Also I have a mother in law who has not treated me well over the years but she lavishes love on my grandchildren and I can handle that because I love them enough to want them to have all the love possible while they are on this planet. The jealousy you speak of is a selfish act (Not judging you, we have all felt that) but I suggest instead you think what is best for your child. Do not deprive her of real love when it is there for her. God bless you.