The guy I like deleted me on facebook?

[HMFan]

Harry:

Sorry to hear you're feeling a bit sad.

Consider this from the OTHER GUY'S point of view for a moment: some strange guy who I've never heard of mistakes me for someone else. We speak briefly about the miscommunication.

At this point, the above is all he really knows about you. Unless you gave him a reason to want to stay in contact with you, deleting you seems to be the natural conclusion to the situation. After all, how many random guys that you don't know do YOU keep in contact with through Facebook?

If you KNOW he's gay, perhaps you can add him again and once that happens try to build something. This isn't the first time someone has used subterfuge to "casually run into" the object of one's affection. But if his "team affiliation" is not crystal clear, you may just want to drop it, otherwise it kind of comes off as a bit stalker-ish.

Rejection is never fun but at least you got up enough courage to add him and chat with him. Good for you! Some people find that difficult to do (I, personally, find that difficult to do...) Don't be too hard on yourself. There are a lot of other fish in the sea.