does my friend want or fancy my bf im 30 no teens plz?

[chicano]

Uh, yeah. No shit she likes him. Does your boyfriend like her? No, not the way she likes you. I'm not saying her wouldn't stick his dick in her though, a guy is a guy after all, so be careful not to giver her the chance to tempt him.

What's going on:
Your boyfriend probably has some things he won't talk to you about or feels he can't (either because of how you've reacted in the past or because it's about you). This girl listens to him because she likes him, and he takes confort in her as a friend.
BECAUSE she likes him, she probably turned you into the enemy in their conversations and has used what little she knows about your relationship (based on what he's told her) against you.

What you should do: Talk to him about it. He'll probably react defensively, but the key is to keep quiet and listen once you've got him going. Don't even use his pauses as a chance to retaliate, unless he asks you a question you should ride the long pauses. I can promise he will think of something else to add on after. It's hard, but this is how I got through to my girlfriend. In the end, their own reasons for being mad begin to sound dumb in hindsight, even to themselves. once the conversation cools down you should keep talking.

communication and closure are so important in a relationship. I cannot stress that enough. And communication does not mean constant back and forth. Each person should have a very modest amount of time to talk, avoid asking questions when you do talk, and LISTEN!