Was she a Real friend, or, out to make me look bad?

[Renee Aponte]

I think you are over reacting. People have told me to get my hair out of my face and I have never thought it was rude. I hate pictures and have to pose 20 times before I like even 1 therefore when someone takes a picture of me, I usually hate it. My husband takes tons of pictures of me and I usually say ugh! when I see them but that is just because I dont like the way that I look in them. You mentioned quite extensively how much weight you and her lost and how she looks beautiful. You lady ma'am have low self esteem and you really need to work on that. When you have self esteem issues you seem to think that everyone is trying to make you look bad and that simply is not true. She sounds as though she was a good friend and you just might have lost that because of your issues.