He doubts, blames, controls and fight all the time. Need help...?

[bambi1]

been there and got the t shirt,reading your letter is like living it over again.It was my second marriage,considerate kind loving until the ring was on my finger,then it changed,moved away from family and friends and had complete control mentally and physically.He controlled money what I wore and who I spoke to.not allowed to wear make up or nail varnish.I was just his skivvy.never had money as he took it and gave me a pittance to feed the children.In the end I ended up in a refuge.mental abuse is worse because it wears you down and you start to believe that its your fault and you deserve to be treated like dirt.physical abuse eventually heals but you never forget.He took 13 years of my life.Im free of him now but not the memories.Get out babe there is a lot of nice people out there you know its wrong or you wouldn't be asking for help.So easy to get into but so hard to get out of.Your worth more than that.Take care and be strong.