Facebook Privacy Questions for a Gay Guy?

[Andrew]

Why is this question in this category? Well, I don't have a Facebook page and I'm gay, and I want to make one because of my friends, obviously. I haven't seen my cousins for a while, and I know they're looking for me on Facebook, and NONE of them know about me.
I'm not ready for them or any of my extended family to know right now.

It's not like I would put any pics of me and a guy together up, or mention that I'm gay. With all the people on facebook with my name, is there any way my cousins can figure out which one is me? Should I DEFINITELY use a different email account that my cousins don't know of to be safe? What else should I definitely do? I appreciate your time reading this and any help you can give.
No. I would never in my life come out on facebook. was this the impression I gave? my question was about 'privacy' with facebook when it came to me being gay. I asked this when I was waking up, so will any future answerers please let me know if I wasn't clear with my question?