My wife's friend is a bad influence to her! Should she delete her off her Facebook friends list?

[a Guy bein a Guy]

Jake my boy, you are being an idiot.
Keep her penned up , or try to and she will rebel and do all those things you worry about.

Take the stick out of your butt and take her out.
While you're at it take the chip off your shoulder about the " trashy, ugly men where we live, mostly White rednecks and Black thugs". Because my son who has a master's degree also attends those clubs and he's NOT any of those things you say. He is a young professional and the ATL is currently a hotbed for single young professionals.

Your marriage may be destroyed but it will be your own ignorance which will be the cause.

Take your wife out on Valentine's Day yourself so she's not prey for the the educated young professionals waiting there for her.

In conclusion, take the chip off your shoulder, the stick out of your butt and quit being an idiot.