My friend is 14 and shes dating a 21 yr old what should i do?!?

[Hannah]

This situation is just one big recipe for disaster. If he does one thing to her that she doesn't want or her parents don't approve if, he can be put in jail. If her parents don't know about this boyfriend of hers, it's even worse. I've been in this situation before and it's not a good one. Because he will eventually talk her into doing anything he wants. My best guess would be to just keep explaining to her why it's not the best idea in the world and that if he even touches her wrong, it could be considered rape which would cause so much drama in everyone's lives that nobody wants to put up with. Good luck to you as well as your friend. I hope she handles the sitation safely and wisely.