How can i reach out and talk to this girl without being a total creep?

[Invisigoth]

make the message private not posted on her wall & say something like, hey! we met at Target the other day. I don't know if you remember. I thought you were lovely & because I was at work, I didn't think it was appropriate to say anything other than "hello" & then this evening I went online to my facebook page & I was shocked to see your picture come up as a reccommended contact because we share a friend.

this is just a rough draft. fix it up into your own words. make sure you name the mutual friend. the next move will be hers. If she doesn't respond or tells you she's not interested then let it go. The important thing to this moment is that you know you aren't dead & that "those feelings" are alive & well inside you.

Good Luck.