After two years of marriage and a daughter - Found out husband cheated.. Advice? Is it worth forgiving?..?

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I always crack up when people say to "leave him, you deserve better". As if going through the hassle of a divorce, fighting in court over spousal support and child support, and being a single mother living on your own is better than working through your issues with your husband.

I know this is difficult for you, and there are a lot of women AND men who have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to cheating. And many people have different ideas of what cheating really is. Thanks to Bill Clinton half the young people in this country don't think that oral sex is sex. So does somebody have to have actual intercourse to cheat? Or is kissing another woman grounds for divorce?

I would think long and hard before you walked out. The guy definitely sounds like kind of a dirt bag. But all things considered is this REALLY worth you packing up and moving out? I'm thinking not necessarily.