Relationship advice needed urgently?

[Rob]

His taste in porn doesn't usually mean anything in real life. What he watches may reflect what he would like to try (except i don't think he actually wants you and your daughter at the same time), but it sounds like he respects the fact that you don't want to do those things. Sounds like you need to give him some privacy. As far as you not liking the reminders of his previous relationships, you have a daughter from a previous relationship. This is going to sound terrible but on some level she is a living breathing reminder to him that you had sex with someone else.