My sister betrayed me?

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WOW...sorry this happened but this type of stuff happens in other families..I've worked with siblings who have slept with each other's spouse...become pregnant by an in-law..and yes, even murdered...so you need to do what will make you feel better and heal...just b/c she is your sister does not give her carte blanche to slander and hurt you...forgive me for saying this but she sounds a bit of a sociopath and will do anything to attain her ends...it would appear that some folks wanted to hear negatives about you..so she pandered to that group...also I can see some jealousy or resentment aimed toward you...analyze where all this feeling is originating and that knowledge should help somewhat in the healing..so we all know that past behaviour is a strong predictor of future behaviour...she has done this before and unless she demonstrates a willingness to change, she will do it again...I know it hurts to walk away from loves ones but if a loved one attempted to physically hurt you wouldn't you defend yourself? I don't see any difference in a psychological attack...she may need to be held a arm's length and you choose a 'sister by choice'...a good friend.