Should I be worried about wife's messages to other guys?

[Svenka]

Well since you said that the messages were innocent, Id say she probably lied so that you wouldnt be upset or worry about why she was messaging random men.

BUT, its still very shady that she lied and the fact that she even feels the want or need to strike up conversations with random men. As a married woman (and I can only speak for myself) If I lied to my husband about that it would probably be because I was getting excitement from these hidden messages. I dont see any other reason for not only doing it but also keeping it from you.

If I were you I would simply bring it up to her and ask why she lied as well as why she feels the desire to even message them to begin with.

I hope it works out!