Should I be worried about wife's messages to other guys?

[Dufus]

I agree w/ Svenka. There's definitely something shady about it. You really should talk to her. Lay all the cards on the table kind of talk. As a married woman myself, I find it totally inappropriate to message men, even if it is innocent. Emotional affairs start out innocent. I'm very happy in my marriage, but I would never want to put myself in an inappropriate situation. It's my way of safeguarding my heart since it belongs to my Husband, and he feels the same; we decided that before we were even engaged.

A good question to ask in addition to the lie, is would she send/receive messages with you sitting next to her? I hope this is nothing. Good luck.