How do i know if hes a player well i met a boy?

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A while ago after 5month i haven't meet his friend and we have only been kissing and hugging i decided to leave. The only place i will ever see him go with me is at school . When i say i want to met him in other places he refuses. So i keep looking through his facebook profile and it says hes in a relationship , so i found out why his friend was staring at me like he was worried.

I'm so afraid of running in back to him again cause he told all his friends about me. He made me think that he likes me , but he was just playing games. Gladly i didn't take a clear picture on the internet. I even saw his sister smiling at me and one of his guy friends staring at me like he was worried. So i decided to move on and he said were not going any where" he made it clear he isn't ready for a relationship" i haven't heard from him after new years i found his true profile he was in a relationship...
2years later i ran into him again i burst into tears because i was being made fun of by his friends . feelings irrationally came back to me i got so irritated .
since 2008..
since he was so mystery i found my self moving on so instantly i was just upset that he spread rumors about me.
my friend also told me that i dont have any more problems from him is just that i was being played when i found out hurted me because i was being made fun of by his friends.