Having a hard time with my boyfriend being "friends" with his ex?

[Alliwannaberight]

This sounds awful. At first I was going to tell you it is possible for a guy to be friends with his ex- but the reality is- it hardly seems necessary. I mean yeah, it's nice to catch up like once or twice a year- but even that is a little fishy. I am "friends" with my ex- because we have a 3 year old together. His girlfriend hates if we talk about anything other than our daughter, and I understand. What she doesn't get is that I don't want him at all, and I don't know if he wants me or not but we don't talk about that stuff. He's actually given me advice on my current relationship. But what you have going on is terrible. I would get out of that crap immediately. That guy sounds disrespectful to you and unable to let go of her. You're better off not having to live with that stuff, for real and seriously.