I need fuking help. PLEASE. HELP. ME. #depressed?

[Docthal]

i dont think he is playing games i think he really liked you and is upset that it's not going to work out.

The quality of any kind of relationship is the extent of which it meets the needs of both partners. And he is definately expecting way more out of your end than you are out of his. The result is that you are thinking "what's wrong? we are getting along fine!" because you are getting everything you want out of the relationship, while he is thinking "this is awefull why dont you love me??" because he isnt getting nearly enough of what he wants out of the relationship.

And i use relationship as a broad term, not necessarily a romantic one because i know you two were not at that level.

Anyway, it is never going to work unless he loses some of his interest in you, and/or you become more attracted to him, And neither of you can force yourselves to do that because attraction is in your heart and you cant force yourself to like somebody that you simply dont, or to lose interest in somebody that you simply love.

So if you expect him to forget about his feelings for you and have a relationship that is on your level, it's not going to happen and it's not fair for you to expect him to do that. Just like it is unfair for him to expect you to fall in love with him all the sudden.

On a side note though, do you have like a line of boys waiting to date you? He seems to really care about you and he seems to be a really important friend to you too. Isn't that enough? Is it worth breaking his heart and hurting yourself because you "just dont see him that way?"