cheating husband uses me or loves me?!!?

[Wine]

1=sexually harassment of those women who rejected him or regular infatuation with other women

2=posing with skimpy dressed women,make them,one of those girls was sitting on his lap while he was partially unclothed and flashed his wedding ring to the camera

3=diner date with some blonde friend of his and he wasn't even sitting on his seat.instead he was standing behind her,kissing her head,wrapping his arms around her chest,stomach and neck and was laughing and joking.

4=publicly thrashing best female friend for how many men he knows she slept with,whom she is sleeping with while he is talking and that shes are a **** indirectly after she cheated on him after their sexually charged affair,and during that he mentioned me what he put me through during the overdose incident, in laws crying when they hear that

5=constant staring at other women who catch his fancy.

6=He always brags about what a family man he is on public and on twitter(same with the documentary-got labeled as a stand up family man)) (time needed to be with family,watching TV with me, and other things about me and daughter) kisses me in the crowds after hes done performing and that's why people think that we love each other so much and have such a good relationship.
He wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we were together in the airplane and switching between airports together.
But just the day before your my birthday while he was talking on twitter,he didn't mention that its my birthday tomorrow..just told that we are going for our family vacation..its all in the public and the public needs to know that hes a devoted family guy.
Even vacations and holidays will be made public via twitter.

7=he stays out of home a lot due to his job,has a huge paycheck at work,famous,successful,good looking & wanted a child as quickly as possible before he got married.and had already thought of baby names including selecting a name for a girl child when we hadn't even married!

8= so this is acceptable????
Why was his intention of marrying and why so much pretending??

And if wife has no effect and hangs out with him happily,with her girlfriends then??