has anyone had experience with a boyfried wanting you to give up male friends, and tells you he loves you?

[Annelise]

I've done all sorts of things to make my boyfriend feel secure, like giving up facebook and friends, but he never makes me feel secureI, its so unfair, he tells me I cant be trusted cos he caught me out for lying, i was only trying to protect my self and didn't tell him something, he made such a big deal out of it, and he makes me feel like im always the bad one, whos done wrong, and he can be trusted and I can't, so I shouldnt have a phone, etc. Then he tells me he loves me and Im the one for him, but then if I don't give up stuff for him, he always finds a really good reason!! he can't be with me!! I don't get it if he loved me so much but he's willing to loose me, all the time i've been with him, I've just become so insecure, I really fell for him, and I feel so cheated and emotionally confused!! im just very lonely single mum, don't have any friends, and very gratefull for any advice x