would u consider this cheating?

[Shaunda Boo!]

Yes I would say it is cheating. First it depends on what type of relationship you have with this other person, and how serious it is. But I am if she could not openly tell you about her new guy friend you already know then what was on her mind and the she wanted to hide this from you because she know it is not right. All this sexting bs always ruin a relationship. I mean why not open up to your man or woman that way when you two are apart, i don't get why people have to go to other people to talk about sex when they are with some who can please them in anyway if they just say something. I can say unless she is just a whore then maybe coming from a woman's view that she may be lonely, not enough time together, maybe she wants something more sexually from you and do not know how to ask for it or either she is losing interest in you, it just depends on how long you been together how and good or bad the relationship is. If none of these are an issue then leave her and find a good woman because she is not serious about you.