Why Did I Have to be Reminded of her!!?

[Jason]

Ok so it’s been 3 months since I broke up w/ my GF. We living together for the past year so it’s been quite an adjustment getting used to being completely on my own again. I miss her companionship but I don’t feel like I truly miss her, I’ve had no contact with her for about the past 6 weeks and besides the loneliness I’d say I was slowly but surely moving on. My ex grew up w/ bad influential parents and an alcoholic bf of 9 years that left her with some mental struggles (trust issues, paranoia, smothering etc.) which ultimately took its toll on me.

So last night I accidentally (honestly) stumbled across her Facebook page. First picture I see on her timeline is of her out with this guy who is a friend of her brother in law. I’ve known him and she and her family have known him for years. Now I don’t know if they were out on a date or just hanging out, I wouldn’t be shocked either way honestly. I know he wouldn’t mind that, just not sure it she is thinking that as well. Well that’s all speculation but then I see two pictures of her out in a very high cut belly shirt. Couple things with that is that she looks amazing, always good looking girl but she looks in better shape and just a little sexier. That’s always hurts to see your ex looking better  but more so the fact that she is wearing those shirts and posting pics on FB, she never wore shirts like that out before! So I don’t know, it was just a bit of a setback last night, and seeing her out with a guy and dressing that way just made me feel like second guessing myself but I’m just caught up in some emotion I guess. I’m trying to find the correct approach to this.