I really need advice pls help me?

[grandma]

Ok, well the full story was a bit long and not written very easily to read, but I think I kind of get the story. If I were you, I'd evaluate whether you think the man would be a threat to your child or not. If you think he could be a good dad, you should give him a chance, because regardless of whether you want to see him or not, it's only fair to your son. You can always work out arrangements that would mean you didn't have to be in a lot of direct contact with the father yourself (for example, my son sees his son on the weekends, but that is arranged through me and the mother being in contact, my son and her don't speak at all.)

Hope it works out for you and you make the right decision.