Should I be upset that my wife of 18 years checks out her ex boyfriends facebook at least 3 times a week?

[Sue C]

After 18 yrs. she surely cannot be in love with them, that's a total impossibility. I believe she's just cking. to see what's going on in their lives today. Odd tho she would be cking. it as often as she is. IF she knows you ck. on what your kids do on the computer, you could just casually mention what you've just noticed & wondered why she's doing it. You surely have every rite to know, as that really is odd for her to be doing that. Think about it & do what you feel is best. I truly don't feel you have a thing to worry about, I would be more curious to know why she's doing it...best to you...