Should I be upset that my wife of 18 years checks out her ex boyfriends facebook at least 3 times a week?

[Jayla]

I see no harm in checking on the past, but this shouldn't be over looked. Not that your wife is looking to step out but woman do tend to seek attention from the internet. Don't mention it, it creates an insecurity that will make her start deleting what she does in the internet, which creates a whole new problem. Unless sure stats distancing herself our acting weird. Make sure your giving your wife enough attention, doing kind things, and making her feel loved and appreciated. Major things to take heed to. Most guys are too busy focusing on themselves, it gets easy to lack. Remember a relationship is an important job too. Good luck and don't sweat it. (: