I have been cyber-bullied many times. I don't want to live in this world?
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03-16-2014, 02:18 AM
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Hey, I don't want to sound obnoxious, but toughen up. They didn't have cyber bullying when i was a kid, but I got beat up every day. I suspect that's a little....ummm....more damaging. There will always be bullies. You need to learn to face them down, stand up for yourself, and not let them hurt you. All that comes from within. You have to learn to do it yourself. But I know from my own experience that half the time, you can end up friends with these bullies if you push back. They are pushing you because they can. If you hurt them back, fearlessly, they will respect you.
Don't read this to think I'm in favor of bullying. It's a dysfunctional social adaptation to bully people. Unfortunately, it's also pretty common, and an effective way to keep competitors cowed. I can even explain it--it's people with too much anger. They live beyond the threshold of wanting to hurt people to make themselves feel better, if only for a little while. That anger and spitefulness finds its expression in bullying. And other ways--beating your family, racism, etc... But lots of people never learn to deal with anger, and you're going to have to deal with them for the rest of your life. I don't know how old you are, and if you interact with these people in meatspace, but you might want to try beating one up. I'm serious. People like that frequently only respect violence. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nu1PjbyfVU4 |
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I have been cyber-bullied many times. I don't want to live in this world? - Lpf - 03-16-2014, 01:50 AM
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