ex text me about 12 year old daughters dirty text messages?

[mrs_hadfield]

It is difficult. Kids need understanding. They are growing up so fast these days. The worst thing is to lecture and punish her. I think the only thing you can do really, that may work is to sit her down and explain that you obviously worry, that losing her virginity so young is not what boys want, they won't respect her for it. Infact I have know people be bullied for it. To think about whether it is harmless fun or a serious matter. There must be books about this sort of thing for her to read, about sexual feelings. Masturbation is also a way of satisfying feelings without having sexual relations with boys. I do not envy your situation. Stranger danger doesn't help much just enforces their curiousity. She needs to know you trust her. Let her know that having sex under a certain age is illegal and that the other pereson could go to prison for it, may make her think twice. Good luck .