Severely depressed over a girl...Should I talk to her for closure?

[Janie]

To be honest, I don't think you should talk to her again. You haven't done anything wrong in the situation except maybe giving in to her - tut tut!

This girl is messing with your head. Seriously. She is either stupid or just a horrible person! You shouldn't have to waste your time on her, nor should you have to feel bad about what happened. You should keep her number so that you can IGNORE her when she texts you. If you try and talk to her about it, she might just try to string you along again. From what I've heard from your story, you don't deserve that!

As for the the best friend. I live by a rule: If I hit someone, I expect to be hit back.
I hate this whole, not hitting girls thing! We wanted equality but then if a guy hits a girl, he gets arrested, a girl hits a guy and nothing happens! It's stupid! Plus you didn't even hit her, you nudged her, which is nothing! I would have rugby tackled the woman!

I think your best bet is to let everything go. You're going abroad, so allow yourself to be free. Forget her, forget everything that happened. It might be hard but I really don't think you should talk to her.

If it's really getting you down then I suppose you could try to Facebook her, once. If she doesn't reply then accept it as a lost cause and let it all out! Another thing would be getting back on the market - if you're not already. It might take your mind off of her!

Good luck to you Tom!