Parents with children that have disabilities.?

[Bobbi]

Make sure the oldest has special time with the parents, so your oldest does not feel left out. It can be easy to do, you are drained from caring for one that the other feels pushed aside or feel not that 'special'. Have you applied for social security disability for him? That might be a help too. Every kid with special needs seems to grow up with their own quirky way to adapt. My son would hide his hearing aids so he didn't have to listen to me. His brothers would encourage him to go without the aids, as rough boy play they tended to fall out and all three would be in trouble. So again, kids adapt! best wishes