Why is it that toxic people who try to tear you down, freak out of you cut them out of your life?

[Ann]

A toxic person is that way because he/she loves to control and manipulate others. Sever what ever ties you have with this person, even if it's a relative. He/she will probably try to ramp up the criticism and have a huge temper tantrum in public to try to shame you. Just turn around and walk away if you're in the vicinity. Avoid the person any way you can--no texting, social media, or personal encounters. They can go find another victim. Don't acknowledge any thing that's said or done.