believe my husbands word or hers?

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I'm gonna tell you my perspective if i were you, i will not believe what he said, if she is all out for a revenge it was all on HIM this you must remember that because the root cause to all this is not you it is HIM. Eventhough you have doubt if she was telling the truth, i'm telling you that no matter how she lied with her story there are some what 80% to 90% of it was the truth meanwhile your man's word will be 0% truth. And no matter how much he tells you there WILL BE something that he is Not Telling.
If you and her can manage to get along and be friends, guess who's gonna be scare the 5h1t out of it?
I've been in your place and no matter how many things he told me, there are always things he kept to himself. And this other woman was rude to me when i asked politely just to be friend, guess what? She has now got her karma and now seeking for help and that I think i can help but too bad she doesn't sees it earlier.
It's an unfortunate, wife and mistress can actually help each other through their experience but they choose not to.