Social Media, am I overreacting?

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I think you are missing the point; its not social media and whether he is showing you in his digital life or not....you should be looking at a bigger picture here.

You have been together for 10 yrs, and no marriage yet... when a guy is into a girl, his afraid of LOSING her. He WILL marry her. This dude isnt afraid of losing you... sorry but this is the truth.

#2 he said "I understand what youre saying" when you told him it bothered you.... but nothing has changed. <---knows you are onto him, but doesnt care. (Translation: Not afraid of losing you.)

#3 guys that exclude their significant other "online" tend to do that, because they WANT TO LOOK SINGLE on social media.

Im sorry if this was tough love, but thats the truth, and if you were my best friend you'd hate me for saying this out loud. Just plain HATE me. But youd be more angry at yourself (and hurt ) because you know... that this was the truth.

Lastly: There are BILLIONS of guys on this planet. Yup, billions with a B...

So dont EVER get hung up on ONE guy, and the ONE guy that you have given 10 yrs of your life to, and still dont have anything in return... guys want to provide for you, make no mistake. But it has to be the RIGHT guy. Otherwise, women get stuck in a situation....exactly like yours. Good luck, i really do feel for you.

p.s. Billions.... just saying.... change your life! Get out there!