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With all the naked pictures you can find on the internet, why does my boyfriend feel the need to?
10-15-2012, 08:07 PM
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Porn on TV and on the computer is incredibly fascinating. Why? Because of the different angles and different perspective you get to see what you absolutely cannot see in real life. Some of the shots and their angles are impossible to duplicate when it's just you and your partner. And, of course, you want to see what will happen next, because each episode brings something interesting.

I am not defending him because I'm a man. I simply want you to see from our perspective.

I hear you. What about YOUR perspective?

Here you go:

You can try this strategy

Tell him the following:

You spend hours watching young, slender babes, with picture-perfect female equipment. They have sex with men, and they have sex with other women. You watch all this from different camera angles, in different settings, doing things to each other that normal people simply cannot and would not do. You watch all this and you salivate over those images. They get you excited. And you watch this for hours.

Do you realize that because of you watching all this smut, I get the feeling that you are not satisfied with me, that you want someone like those babes on the screen, not me. Your watching this doesn't make me very secure about myself, about my body, and about our relationship.

To better help you understand my perspective, consider this:

How would you feel if I spent hours watching young, muscular, male bodies, cleaned and scrubbed to perfection; with straight white teeth; with trimmed and manicured fingernails; and with their long, thick, and hard penises, that are always erect?

How would you feel if I watched those men, with picture-perfect "equipment", for hours?

How would you feel if I watched men having sex with other men?

It would be as exciting for me as it is for you watching women having sex with other women.

Would you feel secure with your body?

Would you feel secure with your sexual energy?

Would you feel secure with your sexual stamina?

Would you feel secure with your penis?

If I was watching naked men as you watch naked women, would you feel secure about yourself?


And since I am not watching naked men, AT THIS TIME, what makes you believe it's ok for you to watch naked women?

If you continue watching naked women, I'm going to start watching movies and go to clubs to watch naked men.

Do you think you are the only one who has vivid imagination?


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I had several women try these lines with their boyfriends/ husbands who liked porn. They got great results. It works like a cold shower. I hope it works for you too.
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