Is my wife hiding something from me?

[Denise]

I would think that she's cheating or tempted to. First, without trust, your relationship is doomed. So the fact of the matter is that she wouldn't need to change any passwords if you weren't snooping. But at the same time, if she wasn't hiding anything either, it wouldn't matter. I don't know any husbands or boyfriends that would allow their wife or girlfriend to communicate with guys the way you allow do. Its just not really acceptable. Friends that were friends before you got together is fair game. But other than that, its unacceptable.

Put your foot down. Next time your wife wants to go to a rave or anywhere that she does not want you to accompany her to, just GO. She can't go, unless you do too. Based on her reaction, you will know. Then you have a decision to make, you aren't going to harass her every time. So you either, leave her or stop bothering her about your suspicions.