I want her to leave me alone! Please help?

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You cry because your gut is telling you this situation is all wrong, going no where, is not beneficial to you in any way, is hurtful to you emotionally, and you are being used. That's why you cry. You know inside all this but because you don't want to believe it you try to over ride that and call it something else.

Bottom line, she uses you emotionally and she says just the right words to keep you quiet and continuing to let her run rough shod over your emotions. You have to cuddle her and listen to her talk about other guys. She gets mad when you try to branch out and away because you won't be there to give her all the attention she demands. She's high maintenance and you're right it's going no where.

You need to cut off contact, not allow her to come over whenever she wants, and let her figure out how to solve her problems in therapy. You need to get out with friends, let them introduce you to some new gals and you need to start having fun again. You changed for nothing, it got you nothing, it changed nothing for the relationship. Yes, she's playing games and she'll say whatever it takes to keep control of you and get you to shut up. But bottom line she goes home and you can't call her your girlfriend so what exactly does all this have to do with fun and romance and how is it beneficial to you?

Block her on social media and do not respond to calls, texts, or e-mails. Have fun again and leave her in the past. Best of luck!